Saturday, February 11, 2006
Men vs women
Well, to start, I would like to say that I am no self-proclaimed professor at knowing what the opposite sex is thinking. More often than not I don't know what the majority of my sex is thinking. But here's some thoughts...
I would like to think that somehow men and women are divided like the left-brain, right-brain thing. That men are right-brainers and women are left-brainers. Maybe that's why people feel like they are completed by finding their partner. Maybe it is finding the other half of your brain that makes you complete with a whole brain.
Or maybe it's something like men have some natural desire to be left alone, and so to compensate women were made to be more social and that we are looking for some sense of balance with the ones we love. Who knows?
But one thing is for certain. I really want some sort of manual to figure out just what is going through the heads of the females I have gotten into relationships with. I just don't know anything. No offense, but some sort of owners manual would be greatly appreciated.
I could give one for myself as well. Don't think that I'm being one-sided about this. Mine would simply say that I need personal space and hate doing the same things over and over. That's about it. Anything more should be asked about and assumptions are ok as long as you run them by me at some point in time. That's as easy as I could make it for someone else.
So please start working on your manuals and let your significant other read them and go over them with you. And also include some service recommendations so that when you're sad I have some sort of list of things that would cheer you up.
Thanks
I would like to think that somehow men and women are divided like the left-brain, right-brain thing. That men are right-brainers and women are left-brainers. Maybe that's why people feel like they are completed by finding their partner. Maybe it is finding the other half of your brain that makes you complete with a whole brain.
Or maybe it's something like men have some natural desire to be left alone, and so to compensate women were made to be more social and that we are looking for some sense of balance with the ones we love. Who knows?
But one thing is for certain. I really want some sort of manual to figure out just what is going through the heads of the females I have gotten into relationships with. I just don't know anything. No offense, but some sort of owners manual would be greatly appreciated.
I could give one for myself as well. Don't think that I'm being one-sided about this. Mine would simply say that I need personal space and hate doing the same things over and over. That's about it. Anything more should be asked about and assumptions are ok as long as you run them by me at some point in time. That's as easy as I could make it for someone else.
So please start working on your manuals and let your significant other read them and go over them with you. And also include some service recommendations so that when you're sad I have some sort of list of things that would cheer you up.
Thanks
# posted by J L @ 9:17 PM 
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It was so funny to read this amidst my own relationship issues. Actually, I would like an owners manual for myself. I think this is one of the differences between men and women. I think most of the time we (women) don't really know what we want. We often know what we don't want, but can't quite figure out what we want. I have trouble managing my own thoughts and feelings, much less trying to make those jive with someone else's. I'd be more than happy to provide an owner's manual. I have just been unable to write it.
Your post put a humorous spin on what I had been viewing in my own life, downheartedly. Thanks!
Your post put a humorous spin on what I had been viewing in my own life, downheartedly. Thanks!
Nicole, I wholly agree. I feel like I'm lost right now, but I often find myself saying to my female friends, "Well, I know I /don't/ want..." As if a process of elimination would make things easier. But it won't, it just complicates the webbing between the sexes.
I think to write an owner's manual I'd have to be an "owner", if you will. Instead, I'm reacting to a series of events, and feeling very much like a "renter" in the process.
I'm sorry I'm not of any help. And I'm sorry if I just confused you more.
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I think to write an owner's manual I'd have to be an "owner", if you will. Instead, I'm reacting to a series of events, and feeling very much like a "renter" in the process.
I'm sorry I'm not of any help. And I'm sorry if I just confused you more.
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